Saturday, November 20

Scorpios rule!!!!!!!!

Disclaimer: Do not read this if you're not a Scorpio and if you're fanatically proud of your sun-sign. You probably won't like me overmuch if you do.

We do.

We probably have the best sun-sign ever. Scorpions are way cooler than any other sun-sign. Yes, that includes even Leo and Virgo. The others aren't even in the race :)

Also, November is the best time to be born if you're Indian. If you're South Indian, it only gets better. You have the most amazing weather everyday(it's raining right now! I don't even have to switch on the fan!), and you have Deepavali and Children's day popping up to give your birthday company.

More than that, it's the sheer number of Scorpios that make it so cool. This sun-sign is not for those who like to be aloof and unique, it's for those who have a strong feeling of group solidarity. You almost can't go anywhere without bumping into a Scorpio or two. Which is what makes November such a wonderful month. There's a party practically everyday. Scorpios are like one big, happy family.

Scorpios are not egoistic, or selfish. Okay, maybe a little bit. But we're such fun-loving people, easily contented and we're all dreamers. And we're hard-working, and sincere, and intelligent, and a host of other things. Maybe modesty does not belong on that list though :)

It's practically proved that October through December is the best time to be born. Most of the bestest people I know are Scorpios. Let's face it: Scorpios are the best. We rule.

Again, if you're not a Scorpio and you're reading this, I know you're not going to agree. You'd say your zodiac sign is the best, or you'd think the whole issue is too trivial for words. Perhaps. But I only wrote this post to try to annoy a certain Piscean I know. I could end with a jibe on fishes, but I'll spare that for her birthday in February.



Thursday, October 21

Endhiran-how could I miss this?

I saw Endhiran!!!!!!!!!!!! At last. But it seems I was too late anyway. By the time my family and I roused ourselves and went to see the movie that's making headlines everywhere- Hindu devoted almost two whole pages to Rajni and his latest movie in Magazine(and it was a lot of crap I thought: either stuff like Rajni's losing his magic, or parallel analysing on his greatness)- it seems the first-day first-show fever was wearing off. The only wolf-whistles throughout the whole movie was when Chitti made his first appearance, and that was only by a couple of people who seemed to be there more out of force of habit than anything else.

But it was an awesome movie. I enjoyed Sivaji for the punch-dialogues and the comedy, and I enjoyed Endhiran for its ability to give clean, light and yet not brainless entertainment. Though a few scenes were just plain nonsense- don't get me started on the whole mosquito mode sequence in the middle. That scene was more than stupid, it was laugh-out-loud amusing for the sheer inanity of the whole thing. Aishwarya Rai simply could not act, especially in the last few scenes, and the songs were pretty bad, with a few exceptions.

But still, it's worth a watch. It's definitely a theatre movie, so watch it in the theatre, or don't watch it at all. And when you watch, forget the bad parts and concentrate on the good ones. There are a lot of those!

Thursday, October 14

Quotes...... love them!

Sometimes the one love you can't get over is the one love you never really had

To love someone when there is no chance of that love ever thriving, that is romance

Don't screw up the best thing that ever happened to you just because you're a little unsure about who you are

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in

I don't think of you as a crush anymore... you're more like a bad habit that I can't shake

I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you

People say whats the point in liking someone who doesn't like you back. They are right, there isn't a point. But you can't help who you like, it's not up to you. Your heart kinda just decides for you and there is no turning back once your heart makes up its mind

The most important things are the hardest things to say. They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish your feelings - words shrink things that seem timeless when they are in your head to no more than living size when they are brought out

I want to be the girl who makes your bad days better, and the one that makes you say "my life has changed since I met her"

You might just think of me as some girl... but I just want you to know, that I'm the one girl who took one look at you, and fell harder than I ever have in my entire life

It hurts to realize that them people you thought you'd love for life don't love you as much as you thought they did and can do without you as if they never knew you at all

Ever notice that the people who hurt you the most are the ones you tend to love more?

The truth is no matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes for it to heal, you won't get through it without your friends

Tuesday, October 5

The happiest things 3

My movie franchise is turning out to be pretty successful :) I thought I'd add a few things more to my 'happy' list-

26) Smileys

27) Praise

28) Being in a library

29) Having someone you haven't met knowing your name

30) Feeling like a kid again

31) Being comfortable in your own skin

32) India!

33) Being exhausted and still struggling on because you must

34) Silence

35) Rereading what you've written and finding out you weren't that terrible a writer you thought you were

Thursday, September 30

Applying psychology :)

Our mind is such an amazing phenomenon. There's just so much potential in the subconscious and unconscious mind, and one needn't know more than the most rudimentary psychology-which basically means being a little acquainted with yourself and your thoughts-to see the amazing effects of it.

We pick up literally thousands of stimuli everyday. A chance word, one little thing can really impact us deeply without us being directly aware of it. This is subliminal perception, and it's mostly used by advertisers to plant a need in our mind for their product which we can completely do without and would never have even dreamed of getting till the advertisers stepped in with their manipulative tactics.

Subliminal perception can be pretty strong, as illustrated by this example in my textbook: During a movie, the words 'Drink coke' were flashed on the screen for a time span of less than one-sixteenth of a second. That time span, as people might know, is too little for our eyes to register it, but apparently the subconscious brain, being dashed observant, registered the message as it was flashed on screen. Results showed that the number of people who bought coke or popcorn during that movie did, in fact, go up.

Unfortunately, my textbook also dashed the excitement at the implications of this message by saying that the results have yet to be proved conclusively and that subliminal perception, though important, need not necessarily work on everyone or produce a substantial change.

Yet, the effects of it can be seen everyday. We hardly remember the scenes we see everyday as we go to work, college or school, or more accurately, we see them without noticing them in any way, yet those details would be registered somewhere in our brain. Many times, we seem to know so many things without remembering exactly where we've read them. It's a natural function of brain, designed to help us survive in the environment.

I've noticed that when I write, my writing style is often very strongly influenced by the recent author I've read. That happens when I speak as well. When I analyse my writing, I can see where the influence of P.G. Wodehouse, or L.M. Montgomery, or someone else I've just happened to read steps in. Some writers have distinctive writing styles, some have wonderfully strong stories, some introduce extremely memorable characters, some new ideas or thoughts: most good writers have a combination of these. Each book is different, and each author. Some books can affect you powerfully-they can almost literally change your life; some books you would have read a million times until you have a piece that looks like something the cat brought in: yet you wouldn't give the copy away for a new one because it holds so many memories- that's why I hope Kindle will never catch on because you buy a book not so much for the story, as for the whole experience of reading and re-reading it and fingering it, and who can forget that wonderful old book smell?

I've almost given up naming my posts because I seem to always move away from the topic at hand, and then I've to label it 'random' again. But getting back to the topic I started with- it's obvious we're influenced by our environment to a great degree. But it's also true that our environment is what we think of it-so our world and all the people and every single perception we have is not the truth, but only our interpretation of everything. So if we can change our interpretation, then we change our world completely. Notice, 'the' world at large will probably be the same, but 'our' world, which is almost the same, but not quite, can be changed. And in real terms, it's almost like the whole world has been changed anyway.

Subliminal perception exists, of course, but it doesn't mean that we are influenced against our will by it, though the coke example is rather scary when you come to think of it. Brain-washing is a very real possibility, but the only way to counter it is to keep your mind open always to new ideas. It doesn't mean accepting everything you're told, but to trust your instinct on what's right and what's not.

I wrote this quote once and stuck it on my cupboard wall, and I've found it a help when I'm confused: 'If anything makes you feel bad, it's the wrong thing to do. Trust your instinct'

As a corollary: 'If anything makes you feel good, really absolutely good(and you'll know when this happens), it's the right thing to do'
If you have the least doubt about something, it's better not to do it, or at least, change it or your attitude till it feels right. Doing something while thinking it's wrong is probaby the worst thing you can ever do.

All right, the budding humanitarian signs off!








Wednesday, September 29

Do or die!

I'm back to what I do best- making lists. This time, it's 25 things I want to do before I die. Again, this can be potentially expanded to more:

1) Write a novel

2) Update my blog regularly :)

3) Go on a world tour

4) Learn to play some sport properly

5) Get my own library with all my favourite books in

6) Work in an NGO

7) Go on a camping trip in the wild

8) Do one new thing everyday

9) Sing with my ipod as though no one's listening

10) Dance as though no one's watching ;)

11) Beam a bright smile so wide it almost cracks my jaw every morning I get up

12) Buy a typewriter

13) Get a camera and carry it around with me wherever I go

14) STOP THINKING obsessively about everything

15) Get rid of clutter

Will continue the rest later. My sister is miffed for some reason at me and I've to go and sort it out. In a while :)


Wednesday, September 8

Badminton-an expounding

I love playing badminton. Is there some saying about how we love to do those things best we're hopelessly awful at? I have a sneaking suspicion I am really terrible at badminton though my coach doesn't say anything about it beyond some vague mention of practice, and my fellow students are completely expressionless when I play. Well, some of the boys laugh, or at least look as though they would snigger at any moment, but they're just kids, aren't they? They don't really matter :)

I tried playing with my sister after I decided I needed the practice and she decided she needed the exercise. I certainly gave her a lot of exercise, whatever else happened. My sister said I played pathetically, and I was surprised. I knew I wasn't very good yet, but I thought I was rather tolerable.

"Didn't I play better than you? Surely I did. Look at those high shots! Aren't they wonderful?", I asked in a bewildered, yet hopeful tone.

My sister's only response was an incredulous look that would put any doubting Thomas to shame. I could practically see her brain going "This is clearly the worst case of egoism and wilful ignorance of one's own faults I've ever seen" She always thought I was rather conceited-she was completely mistaken of course, I need not fail to add-but this seemed to be too much even for her.

So that's why I have a sneaking suspicion I'm not that good at the game. Yet, I shall march on bravely, my head held high and my confidence unshaken. Wish me luck!